Nope.You're calling God's holy word a lie?
Paul wouldn't be telling him to stay there if that had been his bishopric.Timothy was appointed as an overseer of the Ephesian church, he was most definitely a pastor. Now you prove it to me that he was married. Produce evidence of his marital status.
Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by command of God our Savior and of Christ Jesus our hope, To Timothy, my true child in the faith: Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord. As I urged you when I was going to Macedonia, remain at Ephesus so that you may charge certain persons not to teach any different doctrine. (1 Tim. 1:3)
Not from the faith, but from his assignment.Going away on a journey is not going astray from the faith.
It is both.Church leader is a calling, not a job.
And there is a set of requirements for the "calling".