citrus
Member
If you could, I am having trouble facing certain people face to face and staying calm. I get fight or fight and get emotional. Kind of like when you Karen's. It's hard to stand for yourself and not be afraid, negotiate ect. It's hard. I with draw or do the cold shoulder and they both are not effective. I'm a shy girl and introverted. It's like I lost all my logic and question myself when I am not the problem. It makes me want to get away instead of blaming myself and questioning me even though I am in right standing. Some people are impossible. I just look the other way, but I know I need to just risk it and say what I need to say in an adult way. Thanks. It's hard. A lot of people are unfixable. Can't fix it, but can stand grown.