I care about what the qualifications are for a man to be an Elder or Deacon, no matter whether you think I do or not. But the simple fact is, all Christian men whether they're married or not, should show love and therefore be vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach, not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre, be patient, not a brawler, not covetous. For you to try to convince me that only married men can show this kind of love and have these qualities, I not going to agree with that. Also it seems you have completely ignore what I said in post #86 concerning what I said about the apostle Paul about what he said in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35.