As a Christian how do you think we should prioritise our love of others and ourselves? Obviously God should come first as the Bible commands us, but something I've struggled with is where to put ourselves and others, should we love ourselves as much as others...less?
I know we should not love ourselves more than others or we become selfish.
I suppose It depends on who the others are for example your family,strangers, friends. I know this is a very difficult question to answer and struggle myself at putting myself anywhere but last on this list in times of need as I have a low self opinion and always see others as more important than myself.
Sometimes I wonder how God wants us to prioritise our love. Would you die for others in a time of need, in place of yourself if there were no other option; just them or you? Our natural instinct is to protect ourselves, would you be able to break this human instinct to protect someone you love if a situation you were in called for it?
I know we should not love ourselves more than others or we become selfish.
I suppose It depends on who the others are for example your family,strangers, friends. I know this is a very difficult question to answer and struggle myself at putting myself anywhere but last on this list in times of need as I have a low self opinion and always see others as more important than myself.
Sometimes I wonder how God wants us to prioritise our love. Would you die for others in a time of need, in place of yourself if there were no other option; just them or you? Our natural instinct is to protect ourselves, would you be able to break this human instinct to protect someone you love if a situation you were in called for it?