Featherbop
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So hard to believe I would have ever thought this....
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Featherbop said:I was thinking about how to distuingish about who is the one. You know, tht speacial person partner spouse person. I think I know how it could be possible to know who that is.
Well, the fantasy stuff doesn't ever work. Fantasy is not the beggining ingrediant for a successful marriage followup. Its the sign of a weak, person who has no idea of what a real commited relationship based on love and whatever else is needed(trust, maybe?).
So, to find that one person to marry, look for someone who is real about things, and who is all about relaiablilty, for keeping a commitment regardless of circumstance. Someone who shows no remorse to foolish fantasy and won't tolerate being stupid and won't break the commitment anyway. Don't look for the person who will change, look for someone steady, calm, reliable, relentless, unremorseful, unchanging, loving person who will do whatever for the relationship without doing anything wrong.
I think i got this figured out pretty well, just keep a sharp eye out, and be relentless in not letting fantasy instead of reality permeate the relationship.
Kepp a sharp eye out.
Homeskillet said:Saved, I think what's such a blessing about this thread is the journey featherbop has come...he used to be very 'cynical' about marriage (correct me if I'm wrong, Bop) so for him to even post, what he finally "got" was a huge step in the right direction...and he never dismissed God's role in it.
My heart is glad for him.
Enquisitive(nosey) minds want to know featherbop!! Dont keep us in suspense!sillynikki said:
Have you met someone??!!!!!!!