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The Historic Christian Teaching


Few realize that up until 1930, all Protestant denominations agreed with the Catholic Church’s teaching condemning contraception as sinful. At its 1930 Lambeth Conference, the Anglican church, swayed by growing social pressure, announced that contraception would be allowed in some circumstances. Soon the Anglican church completely caved in, allowing contraception across the board. Since then, all other Protestant denominations have followed suit. Today, the Catholic Church alone proclaims the historic Christian position on contraception.

Evidence that contraception is in conflict with God’s laws comes from a variety of sources that will be examined in this tract.



Nature


Contraception is wrong because it’s a deliberate violation of the design God built into the human race, often referred to as "natural law." The natural law purpose of sex is procreation. The pleasure that sexual intercourse provides is an additional blessing from God, intended to offer the possibility of new life while strengthening the bond of intimacy, respect, and love between husband and wife. The loving environment this bond creates is the perfect setting for nurturing children.

But sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation. God’s gift of the sex act, along with its pleasure and intimacy, must not be abused by deliberately frustrating its natural endâ€â€procreation.



Scripture


Is contraception a modern invention? Hardly! Birth control has been around for millennia. Scrolls found in Egypt, dating to 1900 B.C., describe ancient methods of birth control that were later practiced in the Roman empire during the apostolic age. Wool that absorbed sperm, poisons that fumigated the uterus, potions, and other methods were used to prevent conception. In some centuries, even condoms were used (though made out of animal skin rather than latex).

The Bible mentions at least one form of contraception specifically and condemns it. Coitus interruptus, was used by Onan to avoid fulfilling his duty according to the ancient Jewish law of fathering children for one’s dead brother. "Judah said to Onan, ‘Go in to your brother’s wife, and perform the duty of a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.’ But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so when he went in to his brother’s wife he spilled the semen on the ground, lest he should give offspring to his brother. And what he did was displeasing in the sight of the Lord, and he slew him also" (Gen. 38:8–10).

The biblical penalty for not giving your brother’s widow children was public humiliation, not death (Deut. 25:7–10). But Onan received death as punishment for his crime. This means his crime was more than simply not fulfilling the duty of a brother-in-law. He lost his life because he violated natural law, as Jewish and Christian commentators have always understood. For this reason, certain forms of contraception have historically been known as "Onanism," after the man who practiced it, just as homosexuality has historically been known as "Sodomy," after the men of Sodom, who practiced that vice (cf. Gen. 19).

Contraception was so far outside the biblical mindset and so obviously wrong that it did not need the frequent condemnations other sins did. Scripture condemns the practice when it mentions it. Once a moral principle has been established in the Bible, every possible application of it need not be mentioned. For example, the general principle that theft is wrong was clearly established in Scripture; but there’s no need to provide an exhaustive list of every kind of theft. Similarly, since the principle that contraception is wrong has been established by being condemned when it’s mentioned in the Bible, every particular form of contraception does not need to be dealt with in Scripture in order for us to see that it is condemned.



Apostolic Tradition


The biblical teaching that birth control is wrong is found even more explicitly among the Church Fathers, who recognized the biblical and natural law principles underlying the condemnation.

In A.D. 195, Clement of Alexandria wrote, "Because of its divine institution for the propagation of man, the seed is not to be vainly ejaculated, nor is it to be damaged, nor is it to be wasted" (The Instructor of Children 2:10:91:2).

Hippolytus of Rome wrote in 255 that "on account of their prominent ancestry and great property, the so-called faithful [certain Christian women who had affairs with male servants] want no children from slaves or lowborn commoners, [so] they use drugs of sterility or bind themselves tightly in order to expel a fetus which has already been engendered" (Refutation of All Heresies 9:12).

Around 307 Lactantius explained that some "complain of the scantiness of their means, and allege that they have not enough for bringing up more children, as though, in truth, their means were in [their] power . . . or God did not daily make the rich poor and the poor rich. Wherefore, if any one on any account of poverty shall be unable to bring up children, it is better to abstain from relations with his wife" (Divine Institutes 6:20).

The First Council of Nicaea, the first ecumenical council and the one that defined Christ’s divinity, declared in 325, "If anyone in sound health has castrated himself, it behooves that such a one, if enrolled among the clergy, should cease [from his ministry], and that from henceforth no such person should be promoted. But, as it is evident that this is said of those who willfully do the thing and presume to castrate themselves, so if any have been made eunuchs by barbarians, or by their masters, and should otherwise be found worthy, such men this canon admits to the clergy" (Canon 1).

Augustine wrote in 419, "I am supposing, then, although you are not lying [with your wife] for the sake of procreating offspring, you are not for the sake of lust obstructing their procreation by an evil prayer or an evil deed. Those who do this, although they are called husband and wife, are not; nor do they retain any reality of marriage, but with a respectable name cover a shame. Sometimes this lustful cruelty, or cruel lust, comes to this, that they even procure poisons of sterility [oral contraceptives]" (Marriage and Concupiscence 1:15:17).

The apostolic tradition’s condemnation of contraception is so great that it was followed by Protestants until 1930 and was upheld by all key Protestant Reformers. Martin Luther said, "[T]he exceedingly foul deed of Onan, the basest of wretches . . . is a most disgraceful sin. It is far more atrocious than incest and adultery. We call it unchastity, yes, a sodomitic sin. For Onan goes in to her; that is, he lies with her and copulates, and when it comes to the point of insemination, spills the semen, lest the woman conceive. Surely at such a time the order of nature established by God in procreation should be followed. Accordingly, it was a most disgraceful crime. . . . Consequently, he deserved to be killed by God. He committed an evil deed. Therefore, God punished him."

John Calvin said, "The voluntary spilling of semen outside of intercourse between man and woman is a monstrous thing. Deliberately to withdraw from coitus in order that semen may fall on the ground is doubly monstrous. For this is to extinguish the hope of the race and to kill before he is born the hoped-for offspring."

John Wesley warned, "Those sins that dishonor the body are very displeasing to God, and the evidence of vile affections. Observe, the thing which he [Onan] did displeased the Lordâ€â€and it is to be feared; thousands, especially of single persons, by this very thing, still displease the Lord, and destroy their own souls." (These passages are quoted in Charles D. Provan, The Bible and Birth Control, which contains many quotes by historic Protestant figures who recognize contraception’s evils.)
 
Deut: 25:7-10

But if the man does not desire to take his brother's wife, then his brother's wife shall go up to the gate to the elders and say, 'My husband's brother refuses to establish a name for his brother in Israel; he is not willing to perform the duty of a husband's brother to me.'

8"Then the elders of his city shall summon him and speak to him. And if he persists and says, 'I do not desire to take her,'

9(B)then his brother's wife shall come to him in the sight of the elders, and pull his sandal off his foot and (C)spit in his face; and she shall declare, 'Thus it is done to the man who does not build up his brother's house.'

10"In Israel his name shall be called, 'The house of him whose sandal is removed.'

I take you you believe that "does not desire to take his brother's wife" is to mean sexual intercourse for the purpose of providing offspring?

Is it possible that Deut 25: 7-10 is merely referring to "taking" (Ie: wedding) the widow?
 
I think you're missing the point regarding God's displeasure with Onan. The only reason why Onan was having sex with Tamar was for the express purpose of impreganting her so that his dead brother would have an heir. For Onan to have gone in to Tamar and have sex with her, then deliberately withdraw so that she would not get pregnant violated the Law as stated in Leviticus 18:16 "You shall not uncover the nakedness of your brother's wife." This has nothing whatsoever to do with birth control.

biblecatholic said:
But sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation.

I'm going to be really, really blunt here: Going by your beliefs, then my husband and I should never have sex again. He's 40 and I'm 46. We're both young, in good health and madly in love with each other. But, since there is no possible way that I can ever have children (unless God deals with me the way He did with Sarah), everytime we have intercourse we are deliberately excluding procreation. So, even though we are married before God and the state, my husband and I are not to follow what Paul stated in 1 Corinthians 7 about depriving one another.
 
handy said:
I'm going to be really, really blunt here: Going by your beliefs, then my husband and I should never have sex again. He's 40 and I'm 46. We're both young, in good health and madly in love with each other. But, since there is no possible way that I can ever have children (unless God deals with me the way He did with Sarah), everytime we have intercourse we are deliberately excluding procreation. So, even though we are married before God and the state, my husband and I are not to follow what Paul stated in 1 Corinthians 7 about depriving one another.


I think you misunderstand. You aren't deliberately excluding procreation. As long as you aren't using anything artificial to block life. If God wanted you to have a child like Sarah you're not doing anything to block it.


Lev 18:16 doesn't apply to this because he was allowed to see her in that manner.
 
biblecatholic said:
handy said:
I'm going to be really, really blunt here: Going by your beliefs, then my husband and I should never have sex again. He's 40 and I'm 46. We're both young, in good health and madly in love with each other. But, since there is no possible way that I can ever have children (unless God deals with me the way He did with Sarah), everytime we have intercourse we are deliberately excluding procreation. So, even though we are married before God and the state, my husband and I are not to follow what Paul stated in 1 Corinthians 7 about depriving one another.


I think you misunderstand. You aren't deliberately excluding procreation. As long as you aren't using anything artificial to block life. If God wanted you to have a child like Sarah you're not doing anything to block it.


Lev 18:16 doesn't apply to this because he was allowed to see her in that manner.

Not necessarily... Onan knew the requirements. He knew that he was to provide an offspring. However, the text says that Onan did not want to "go all the way" (I think you get the picture) because the knew the offspring would not be his, but he 'went into" his brother's wife anyways and the at some point pulled out and "spilled his seed."

The displeasure of the Lord was that Onan went in at all! Onan wanted to have the pleasure of seeing his brother's wife, but did not want the responsibility. That is the displeasure, and therefore Lev 18:16 would apply.

Onan was "allowed" only if he took on ALL the responsibility. Onan only wanted the pleasure.
 
aLV, I agree with your assessment of this passage. Onan had no business being with Tamar if he refused to impregnate her. For all intents and purposes, he raped Tamar, thus bringing God's wrath against him.

Biblecatholic, if there is no way for my husband and I to have a child outside of the miraculous, then why have sex at all. If God wants me to have a child via my body (I actually am the mother of two via adoption) then He could inform Steve and I of it, just as He did Abram and Sarai. Until then, since there is no way to have children via normal methods, are we not subjecting ourselves to... how did you phrase it...an un-natural and even harmful activity?

How could sex be un-natural and harmful to couple A, who are using birth-control therefore no children, and not un-natural and harmful to couple B, who don't need birth-control because of infertility? Exactly what is un-natural and harmful of a loving, married couple engaging in the intimacy of sex?
 
handy,


The reason I said it is unnatural is that it puts up a barrier against God's creative will. If it is natural maybe you could explain.



I disagree. Onan had a right to have his temar uncovered. He was killed for spilling his seed. To me it would seem that if it’s ok to contracept, then Onan( having a right to have relations with her) not giving her a child would then be ok anyway, and seeing her naked is ok because she now belonged to the nearest kinsmen which was Onan.....It’s about his seed. The seed is is even looked at as offspring Heb 7:9-10 Even Levi, who receives tithes, paid tithes through Abraham, so to speak, 10 for he was still in the loins of his father when Melchizedek met him.,
Job 10:8-11 ‘Your hands have made me and fashioned me,An intricate unity; Yet You would destroy me. 9 Remember, I pray, that You have made me like clay. And will You turn me into dust again? 10 Did You not pour me out like milk, And curdle me like cheese, 11 Clothe me with skin and flesh, knit me together with bones and sinews?


...Also it think it’s good to point out that “marital relations†are sacred. From the beginning they were meant to consummate the wedding vows and every time afterwards it is a renewal of the marital covenant and to generate more love between husband and wife ,also to be open to life/procreation, to reflect the Glory of God... It is 2 becoming one the man saying “ I give all that I am in my entirety to you†and the woman saying “I receive all that you are and give back all that I amâ€Â.... Marital relations are not meant to be “ I give you all, but my fertilityâ€Â. Sex and marriage reflect the Love between Christ and the church. Christ at no time says “I give you all of me, but I use this to block a part of me.

I do understand that most people have not learned this in the past 50 years. I do not think people are bad people if they use artificial means to block pregnancy. I just don’t think they have been taught about the subject.

Also
The pill has three ways of working:

1. They prevent ovulation by suppressing the part of the brain which signals for ovulation to begin.
2. They change the lining in the cervix to make it more difficult for sperm to pass through and fertilize an egg.
3. They prevent implantation of newly conceived human life on the lining of the womb.

The first two methods are contraceptive in nature, the last one causes abortions

it is between 2 and 10 percent cause abortions(depending who's stats you go by)

to be continued

soon I'll give you stats on how since it has become legal it has affected the divorce rate, abortions have went up, diseases, emotional wounding, same sex marriage and etc...

Mike
 
I can understand a personal decision not to use contraceptives. However, I believe you have misunderstood the Onan passage to support your decision.

It is a dangerous road to travel when we attempt to twist Scripture to fit our own ideas.
 
I thought that sexual intercourse was allowed only within the bonds of marriage. Now I read otherwise. LOL.

This whole issue is a cultural one and has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with God.

The evils of contraception would prevent thousands of deaths, from aids, around the world. It would prevent the spread of STD's. Now one could say they shouldn't be having sex. The reality is they will. So thus we condemn thousands of children to having no parents and dying of AIDS contracted during the birth process.

The deaths of these people in this world wide epidemic is far more evil than any form of birth control.

This is an issue between two consenting adults and God and the church ought to but out right from the beginning. The governments nor the churches have any business in the bedrooms of the nations. That is between individuals and God.

Shalom
Ted :biggrin
 
aLoneVoice said:
It is a dangerous road to travel when we attempt to twist Scripture to fit our own ideas.
lol.....


Pope Paul VI predicted grave consequences that would arise from the widespread and unrestrained use of contraception. He warned, "Upright men can even better convince themselves of the solid grounds on which the teaching of the Church in this field is based if they care to reflect upon the consequences of methods of artificially limiting the increase of children. Let them consider, first of all, how wide and easy a road would thus be opened up towards conjugal infidelity and the general lowering of morality. Not much experience is needed in order to know human weakness, and to understand that menâ€â€especially the young, who are so vulnerable on this pointâ€â€have need of encouragement to be faithful to the moral law, so that they must not be offered some easy means of eluding its observance. It is also to be feared that the man, growing used to the employment of anti-conceptive practices, may finally lose respect for the woman and, no longer caring for her physical and psychological equilibrium, may come to the point of considering her as a mere instrument of selfish enjoyment, and no longer as his respected and beloved companion"

Divorce rate in couples who use contraception 1 in 2
Divorce rate in couples not using contraception less than 1 in 100

Half of those seeking abortions were using birth control

Since the Pill began to be sold in 1960, divorces have tripled, out-of-wedlock births jumped from 224,000 to 1.2 million, abortions doubled, and cohabitation soared 10-fold from 430,000 to 4.2 million.

40 percent of U.S. children do not live in homes with their father. Never has there been such an abandonment by fathers of the women they impregnated and their kids.

a rise of out-of-wedlock births from 4 to 32 percent of American babies born.

Throughout history, some have committed adultery. "However, a tremendous deterrent from doing so, if not the main deterrent in most cases, was the fear of pregnancy. Hmm, now what might happen if this natural deterrent were to be taken away through widespread availability and cultural acceptance of contraception?" asks Christopher West, Denver Archdiocese's Marriage & Family Life Director. Of course, infidelity increases.

Women have been objectified and men have lost respect for themselves

(the culture of life foundation)


this is the fruit of contraception
 
People have been having sex since man began. It happens and will happen and nothing anyone can do will change that. You cannot legislate morality. A study of ancient sexual mores will show just how ridiculous this is. For instance in ancient Hebrew history it was deemed OK for a married man to step out with another woman who was not a virgin. This was not considered adultery. Check the Jewish Encyclopedia. Polygamy was acceptable to the Hebrews past the death of Jesus. It was even OK for Abraham to take his servant to bed. Numbers 31 would indicate that God not only condoned but encouraged war crimes involving sexual activity. The writer of Numbers or the redactor sure knew soldiers quite well. Solomon had so many wives he must have been busy in bed all of the time. Probably wore him out. Then it was OK to take your dead brother's wife to bed. Is it still OK? Why or why not?

I must comment on the statement that women have been objectified. That is the case from the beginning of the Bible to long past its end right up to today. It has absolutely nothing to do with contraception and everything to do with a misguided patriarchal society.

This drive for procreation was a cultural based drive. The Hebrew tribe was small and they needed more children. Such procreation has now given us a world where millions have little to no food. This is one of the evils of the scriptures. The human race is now seriously in danger of self destruction from overpopulation and the gross misuse of the world's resources.

I could go on but I really don't think anyone would want to go there.

Is this drive to ensure some form of morality worth the lives of innocent children and adults? I don't think so.

The nuclear family as it has been is no longer the norm. Once again it is cultural and has nothing and should have nothing to do with religion. We can blame Augustine for this neurotic attitude towards sexuality. He had this neurosis himself.

Shalom
Ted :biggrin
 
biblecatholic said:
aLoneVoice said:
It is a dangerous road to travel when we attempt to twist Scripture to fit our own ideas.
lol.....


Pope Paul VI predicted grave consequences that would arise from the widespread and unrestrained use of contraception. He warned, "Upright men can even better convince themselves of the solid grounds on which the teaching of the Church in this field is based if they care to reflect upon the consequences of methods of artificially limiting the increase of children. Let them consider, first of all, how wide and easy a road would thus be opened up towards conjugal infidelity and the general lowering of morality. Not much experience is needed in order to know human weakness, and to understand that menâ€â€especially the young, who are so vulnerable on this pointâ€â€have need of encouragement to be faithful to the moral law, so that they must not be offered some easy means of eluding its observance. It is also to be feared that the man, growing used to the employment of anti-conceptive practices, may finally lose respect for the woman and, no longer caring for her physical and psychological equilibrium, may come to the point of considering her as a mere instrument of selfish enjoyment, and no longer as his respected and beloved companion"

Divorce rate in couples who use contraception 1 in 2
Divorce rate in couples not using contraception less than 1 in 100

Half of those seeking abortions were using birth control

First - I do not see what is so funny.

Secondly - you provide no evidence of your "facts".

Thirdly, if "half of those seeking abortions were using birth control" then doesn't that mean the OTHER half were not?

The problem isn't birth control - the problem is the mis-use of the sexual relationship.
 
I had laughed at this comment
aLoneVoice said:
It is a dangerous road to travel when we attempt to twist Scripture to fit our own ideas.
I had commented otherwise but I edited it. I think that is a funny statement because according sola scriptura theology everyone can interpret as guided by the Holy Spirit and my interpretation is just another one in the mix. So it should not seem like "twisting" to you, right?


About "onanism" one must remember ALL of Christian churches taught the interpretation that I am saying for nineteen hundred and forty years until socitial pressure made some churches bend. Anglicans in 1939(intended for rare circumstances) then some other denominations followed afterwards.

You should read some of Margaret Sanger(the founder of planned parenthood) She is a big reason it became legal to use.


Anabaptist are pacifist right? I would think since 2 - 10% of those using the pill have their egg fertilized thus a human being created, but it's not allowed to attach to the wall so it is discarded as waste. Which means it is an abortion(2- 10% of the time) I would thing you would want to err on the side of precaution and be against it. the women often don't know that they had an abortion due to the birth control because they didn't know their egg could be fertilized. Wouldn't you be against a war if only 2 -10% of innocent dies?
 
Bible Catholic,

biblecatholic said:
But sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation. God’s gift of the sex act, along with its pleasure and intimacy, must not be abused by deliberately frustrating its natural endâ€â€procreation.
I think you misunderstand. You aren't deliberately excluding procreation. As long as you aren't using anything artificial to block life. If God wanted you to have a child like Sarah you're not doing anything to block it.

These two statements seem to contradict one another. The first one suggests any method of birth control is wrong. The second statement points to artificial forms of birth control. Which statement is correct? Also, do you condone or condemn the rhythm method?
 
vic C. said:
Bible Catholic,
These two statements seem to contradict one another. The first one suggests any method of birth control is wrong.The second statement points to artificial forms of birth control. Which statement is correct?
I don't see, maybe you could explain it a bit more. Anything that is not in Gods plan for sexuality would be concidered wrong. To you is birth control in God's plan? Can you give scriptural evidence please?

vic C. said:
Also, do you condone or condemn the rhythm method?
I do believe in NFP, I'll have to look into the rhythm method and see it's similarities.
 
I'm neither for nor against. I was just trying to find out if you are for or against. The difference in your two statement are clear. Statement #1 says, "...But sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation." That would be saying even natural forms of birth control (ie-rhythm method, which the RCC teaches) are unnatural too, because it greatly reduces the chances of pregnancy.

Statement #2 stresses only artificial means are unacceptable. "...As long as you aren't using anything artificial to block life." The difference between natural and unnatural forms results in the same end. I would think, in this case, the end justifies the means. If this is not the case, but the RCC continues to teach rhythm methods of birth control, than we now have to deal with a case of hypocrisy.

I do believe in NFP, I'll have to look into the rhythm method and see it's similarities.
The first method in NFP is basically the same. Both rely on the woman's menstrual cycle. They now give it a fancy-dancy-name (Sympto-Thermal Method) Heh, chalk it up as another case of political correctness. :-D

To bring this full circle with another thread, St. Augustine wrote something about the practices this method.
 
Vic c,
i see what you are saying. I don't always have the best communication skills when it comes to writing.
What I was saying is both you can not block God's creative power. If nfp is usedthere is no blocking of God and the "seed" of the man or woman that God has created is not discarded cavalierly. Children are a gift(that not all receive) who are we to block God. You are also missing the point, you can tell by it's "fruits" look at what has happened to our people since it has becopme legal. The facts speak for themselves. Believing in contraception is akin to saying divorce is ok, but tons of all christians ignore this too(my people included). There is natural law that God has designed


vic C. said:
The difference between natural and unnatural forms results in the same end. I would think, in this case, the end justifies the means. If this is not the case, but the RCC continues to teach rhythm methods of birth control, than we now have to deal with a case of hypocrisy.
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there is a huge chasm between "natural" and "unnatural". Also there are distinct rules to use NFP.

hypocrisy?hmm....... I would say the hypocrisy lies in those churches who changed doctrine and interpretation due to societal pressure. There was a time when your church was against it

We see the fruit of contraception in our culture.
 
No problem here; I'm single and celibate. I was just trying to clear up a slightly blurred line. 8-)
 
it is clear that there are three people who are all guilty of violating the Law of the Levirate: Onan, Judah by his own admission, and Shelah. Only one of them, however, was killed. Justice requires that we ask what Onan did that the others did not do. The answer is obvious. Only Onan engaged in the covenantal sexual act but defrauded it by his contraceptive behavior. The Levirate-only interpretation makes God to be arbitrary and unjust.

Deuteronomy 25:5-10 - that clearly describes the penalty for a man violating the Levirate. The aggrieved widow could accuse him before the elders, spit in his face and take off his shoe-presumably quite embarrassing, but far from the death penalty


http://www.nfpandmore.org/notjustfor.shtml
 
"Every action which, whether in anticipation of the conjugal act, or in its accomplishment, or in the development of its natural consequences, proposes, whether as an end or as a means, to render procreation impossible" is intrinsically evil.

(Humanae Vitae 14, Pope Paul VI)
 

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